I Idolized My Cousin. Until the Day He Tried to Kill Me. https://nyti.ms/2VoBX3q

For years, I was drawn to his strength, his bravado, his violence. But then he forced me to come to terms with how that idea of masculinity poisoned his life — and mine.
The New York Times Magazine Domestic Violence, Families and Family Life, Marriages
By WIL S. HYLTON from NYT Magazine
https://nyti.ms/2VoBX3q